-Brittany. So many … Because, hey, girl, get yours. Because reading some sexy erotica is a great alternative to another bad date. You don't need an excuse to vote early. Go Your Own Way: Women Travel The World Solo, anthology 24. Because you might as well kick major ass in your career in the meantime. Debra Fileta is a Professional Counselor, speaker, and author of True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life, 21 Days to Jump Start Your Love Life, and 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life – where she writes candidly about dating, relationships, and how to find true love. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy 6. 9. We spend so much of our 30s managing our own money, building our own careers, and taking control of our own lives. Because this book will make you think that all relationships end in murder, and it's best to read when you don't have a specific culprit in mind. I Didn’t Get Married in My 20s, and Here’s What I Learned, True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life, 8 Ways to Pray For Your Love Life (Or Lack Thereof! Brene Brown is a researcher who talks about the power of vulnerability. But your state may let you vote during a designated early voting period. Today is National Voter Registration Day! We need community, not because people complete us, but because God gave us people to edify us, help us, encourage us, and sharpen us. He will give you what you need for today. The Craziest Moment in 'Bachelorette' History. Loaded with quizzes for self-assessment and practical solutions to go from casual dating to a committed relationship. If you’re a bookworm, these are 5 books every single woman dating in their 30s should read. 12. How Stella Got Her Groove Back by Terry McMillan Remember, God’s Plan is always Good: My favorite quote reminds me that “If you knew what God knows, you would have chosen what He’s planned”. Because it's a beautifully-written classic, but you don't want any overnight guests getting the wrong idea. Love is a Mixtape by Rob Sheffield For some, “love” has come and gone and your heart has been severely broken. You’ll also learn how to spot others’ love language so you know how to express love in a way they’ll receive it. Karl Lagerfeld Wants to Marry His Cat. 1. The First Audio is Ready For You, Next Level Love – 30 Days to Your New Love Life, You’re In! One of the great perks of being unattached is the free time -- time that can be spent catching up on all the great reading you've been meaning to do for the last five years. But doesn’t it seem like something happens when you turn 30 that sabotages your hope? 26.Modern Dating: A Field Guide by Chiara Atik, Your vote is your voice! Trust Him on this journey, and open your heart to what He has in store for you today. Because your home is your palace, even if home is a tiny studio apartment. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn How can I keep believing for something that I- and everyone else around me- thinks will never happen? Thanks for tuning into the Q&A series! Really. It may even seem like all your friends are reaching those desired milestones: getting married, having children, starting their families. Oftentimes in my life, I’ve had to come to God in the middle of my darkness and cry out “Lord, I don’t believe…help my unbelief.” God honors your heart, and understands your humanity. 13. The Ethical Slut by Dottie Easton and Janet Hardy You’re In. If you haven’t read this one, just put it on … Because you want to be ready when you do meet someone who rocks your world. Next Level Love 30 Day Bootcamp. 20. 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Don’t Buy Into the Lies: It’s easy to start thinking crazy when we are trying to “figure out” why life didn’t turn out as we planned. Because laughing hysterically while in bed with someone is probably considered rude. Many of us know what we need to be happy in a relationship but we’re afraid to ask for it. Because you should get the chick lit thing out of your system … Read it and you’ll learn how you can use your vulnerability to create intimacy in all your relationships. Because when you cry your guts out, you'll want to do it in the privacy of your own home. Because if you were ever thinking about marrying for money, this would be a pretty good reason not to. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. 'You Say Single Like It's a Bad Thing' -- Pin to Win Over $2000 In Prizes! Sometimes circumstances make it hard or impossible for you to vote on Election Day. Connect with her on Facebook or Twitter or book a session with her today! 10 Hilarious Examples of Guys Not Realizing They're Being Hit On. For some major encouragement, check out my friend Alison’s incredible story: I Didn’t Get Married in My 20s, and Here’s What I Learned or check out A Guide to Singleness: For Your 20s or A Guide to Singleness: For Your 40s+. We want to do everything on our own, without having a need for others. Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace Apartment Therapy: the Eight-Step Home Cure by Maxwell Gillingham-Ryan Everyone shows love differently and Gary Chapman breaks it down here in 5 languages of love. Being single in your 30s is hard, because for most of you, it isn’t what you had planned. Because it's important to remember that grownups can still believe in magic. 19. Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone by Eric Klinenberg Because, honestly, sometimes you just think about giving up on dudes forever and launching your own future colony of women. Polling hours on Election Day: Varies by state/locality. God’s plan is always good. 22. How to Cook Everything by Mark Bittman Rather than allowing your time of singleness to lead to isolation, be deliberate about entering into the lives of others and inviting them into yours. Because she's like a mom/wise older sister/straightforward BFF in one great advice-giving package. There’s a huge difference between being dependent (needing others to complete us) and interdependent (inviting others into our lives). Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed Bridget Jones' Diary by Helen Fielding. He cares about you and He cares about your love life. Because these stories will inspire you to set off on an incredible journey of your own. 16. What to do With Sexual Desires, 3 Ways Social Media Impacts Your Real-Life Relationships. Plus: The 7 Weirdest Sex Products For Couples. Herland by Charlotte Perkins Gilman All rights reserved. I’ve reviewed this book on my channel but it’s one I recommend over and over again, especially to singles dating in their 30s. The Melting Season by Jami Attenberg Really. 25. Because dudes love this book, and you will be able to intelligently explain why you think it is good/sexist/some combination of good and sexist/whatever. He hasn’t forgotten you, not for a moment, and greater yet, He’s never left your side. This book teaches you how to set boundaries in dating so you can ask for the relationship you want.